Romancing Real Estate

I read an interesting article today that compared the decision to hold off on buying real estate to fear of commitment in relationships.
"This one is perfect - but what if I see something even better tomorrow?"
"My situation is not exactly what I want, but it is comfortable and at least I know what I have"
"It's a huge commitment, and so permanent - I am not sure if I am ready".

Any of those statements could, in reality, be applied to real estate, or real life. The reason being, either decision is highly emotional and carries long term ramifications. In actuality, they can be applied to any big decision, which can sometimes seem paralyzing. In the face of a significant change, human beings often opt for the safety of what we know. Its human nature.

The real estate process, however, should be looked at far more practically. If you are currently paying $1200 in rent, that money may be better served paying a mortgage instead - in effect, you are adding to your investment every time you make a payment. At the end of ten years, you either have paid ten years of rent, and you move out with only your personal possessions - or you have solid equity in your future. Although it is tough for sellers right now, the longer term investor will almost always be safe with a real estate purchase. The key is to not NEED to sell, but to be able to wait until it is favorable to sell. Which is exactly the situation of a person looking to buy a home in order to live here.

History has proven that in a slow market, buyers are waiting for someone else to buy first. In essence , it provides validation that it is "safe" to buy. Traditionally, it is the leading edge investors - the first ones back into the market - that get the deals. By the time the market is back in an upswing, many buyers realize they are now coping with rising prices, not falling ones.

Right now, "all of the good ones" are not taken. So get out there - you may be suprised at what you find.